It’s not
often I received a friend request that actually makes me smile, normally there
from what I call “green card man, I’m sure you know that type, creepy man from
a dodgy part of the globe, whose request you instant decline. However, last week was different, I received a
request from someone who instantly put a smile on my face, a complete blast from
the past.
When I
worked for my previous company, before we moved locations, there was this lad
in the warehouse, I’m going to call him Martin. He was one of the day shift
supervisors, he was well put together, funny, knew shit, the only downfall he had was
he was a little younger than me. That said, even back then I was willing to overlook
that, which is completely unheard of, we all know I don’t do younger men.
Our paths
didn’t cross too often, since I worked nights and he did days, but when they
did, we’d always chat and joke around and flirt a little. But nothing ever came
of it. When it came to light the site was closing, he joined the army and I stayed
with the company. And with that we lost contact.
Then last
week his name popped up in my friend requests, I knew who was it was straight
away and I couldn’t help but smile. That said, I didn’t read a lot into it, ex
co-workers add each other all the time. We had something like 12 friends in common, so odds are I just popped up as a suggestion. I accepted his request and
started getting ready for work.
Less than 5
minutes later he popped up in my chat. It was pretty standard at first, I was a
little shocked he remembered so much about me, it has been nearly 5 years. We
continued messaging while I was at work that night, and then the message got a little
flirty and started ending with “xx”. I don’t read a lot into that, but it’s
a positive sign.
We continued to message for a few days, getting more and more flirty but nothing
even PG-13. Just feeling each other out and trying to figure out each other
intent. I’d say, neither of us have completely worked each other out yet. I’m
not sure if he’s after a hook up or more. He’s in the army so I always put my
money on just sex, but that wasn't his style when I worked with him. My other concern is he’s a
little out of my league, words I never thought I’d have to say. That said, I’m going to play the game and see where
it goes. I mean Mr. X got me and I’m way the hell out of his league.
I haven’t
been able to speak to Martin in a few days, he’s away on exercise, but once he’s
back Friday I’m looking forward to seeing what’s there. And as I always say, if
nothing else, I should get a few good blogs out of it.
Anyways, I
am going to go and get some sleep, it’s been a long few days. But before I go I
have this question for you, have you ever dated anyone out of your league and
how did it end? Let me know in the comment box below and as always stay and play
safe.
Love,
The Honest
Bitch
xoxo
