“The problem is you
pick the wrong guys” – People who suck at breakup advice
With the exception of
Mr. X my relationship problems have nothing to do with the men I pick. And has
everything to do with the fact relationships turn otherwise nice guys into pricks.
I’m not the sort of
person who goes out with a guy once and then he’s my boyfriend. I like to get
to know my prospective boyfriends. I like to befriend them first, get to know
them. See if they’re good boyfriend material or if they have more issues then
playboy.
I’m selective with my
boyfriends, I don’t go for “bad boys” or guys who are rude or disrespectful. That’s
just a massive turn off to me. I like nice guys who are independent, who have
the ability to make their own decisions and not follow the crowd. I like a guy
who has his own beliefs and morals and stick to them. It’s not like I go for
jerks and cheaters I put every effort in to screen them out.
I’m not a high
maintenance girlfriend either so why men turn into assholes when they’re in a
relationship is beyond me. My requests in a relationship are simple; I like a good
night text and message if you’re running late. Clearly the makings of pushing a
man over the edge.
It just infuriates me
when people assume the girl is the problem, and it’s her fault things end
poorly in a relationship.
Of course it’s my
fault; I’m the one inserting his dick into other women. Yep it’s my fault I put
his tongue in that girl mouth. Completely my fault I wrote the script he read
when he lied to me. Give me a fucking break.
I know I’m not
innocent and I’ve fucked up in the past and I own that. I’m by no means
perfect. But neither are the guys I’ve dated and to pin their fuck ups on me is
low and pathetic. Grow the hell up.
That’s my rant on the
matter, what do you guys think. Is it the girls fault when a relationship
doesn’t end well? As always dolls, stay safe.
Love,
The Honest Bitch
xoxoxo
