After my last few
blog posts I thought I’d better message Mr. X to see just how much trouble I
was in. And then this conversation happened.......
Me: I don’t like
surprises so care to tell me if I’m in any trouble for anything I’ve written
lately?
Mr. X: no
But you are bitter
Did you not consider why I am in an open
relationship?
Me: I’m not bitter
and no I didn’t
Mr. X: fair enough
Me: Because you
wanted to watch me snap? Lol
Mr. X: no
because I want a closed
relationship with her
and this is my in
Me: Good luck with
that one
Mr. X: I don’t need
luck any more
Me: y?
Mr. X: We’ve agreed
to be exclusive last night
Me: Cool
Well done
Mr. X: Thanks
Me: Don’t screw it up
Mr. X: I won’t
so sorry
no more flirting
Me: Not a problem
Good luck Mr. X [I used his actual
surname of course]
After I sent him that
message I did something I’ve never done before; I unfriended someone. I’ve
blocked plenty of people over the years but I’ve never unfriended anyone; but
in this case he needed to be removed.
If you’ve been
reading my blogs for a while you may remember Mr. X’s stunt a few Christmas’s
ago when he told me he had feeling for me and then less than 24 hours later block
me on everything, Facebook, Twitter, phone, email...he was gone. Let me just
say I didn’t do that.
I didn’t block him on
anything, I still follow him on Twitter and Skype, he’s free to contract me, I
have no problem with him. We go back a long way; if he needs to talk he knows I’ll be there for him but with that being said I still feel that Facebook
had to go. I just need my.....cyber space.
After that little
conversation I’m not going to lie I wanted to curl up in bed with a bottle of
Tequila. But I didn’t; I went for a run instead (which was a stupid idea given
my back issues.) Then I just zoned out for the rest of the day I was feeling a
little blah (for lack of a better word).
I didn’t sleep too
well last night, I just felt off but after waking up to the news that after 113
days the NHL lockout is over, I feel awesome. If someone had told me 114 days
ago all I had to do to prevent the lockout was unfriend him, he would have been
long gone, it’s not even a close contest. A team I’ve loved forever or a guy that
has been fucking me around forever ...it’s no brainer.
It made me think of
some dating advice Steve Dangle (a fairly well known hockey blogger) once
jokingly gave me “nobody good hates hockey.” When I thought about it, joking or
not he’s right. All my exes have hated hockey and all my exes are....”not good”.
So the fact less than 24 hours after removing Mr. X (who hates hockey) the sunlight
that is the NHL broke through the cloud and now hockey is back makes me smile. Life
has a funny way of wrapping things up in a cute little bow.
So what strange but
true dating advice have you been given? Let me know in the comment box below
and as always stay and play safe.
Love,
The Honest Bitch
xoxoxo
So the Q&A was his in? I don't get it.
ReplyDeletePS: if I thought you were bitter, I would have told you. I really don't think you are, but like I said in my post about men and their ego, they just cannot comprehend that sometimes it is all a game for us to. They are not the only ones who play. It seems Mr.X is in that category of guys who don't comprehend!
I think he was saying his "open relationship" was his in with the girlfriend. but I don't know he hurts my already spinning head hence the unfriending. And why I think he put a hex on me making me ill.
DeleteThank you, I was starting to doubt myself on that one lol