The week of daily blogs continues, well, we’ll see if this lasts a week but that is the aim. Last night at work wasn’t too bad, I’m pretty over it and have normalized again… my body language is still a wee bit off, but its minor shit like my toes are pointed the wrong way… and to be fair, I wear steals so nobody but me would know that.
I wanted to talk about the theory one of my long time reads had on why I didn’t click that I might have feelings for Larry.
She’s sent me a message saying give my long history of falling into relationships, and being the last to know when I’m in one, she's not surprised the feelings didn’t register because that wasn’t my focus. I was focused more on the character, humor and personality traits. All the other stuff was secondary and not relevant until Miss Pippi whore stockings showed up.
I kind of
think that theory proves once and for all you’ll a
lot smarter than I am. I thought a lot about this yesterday before I went to
bed and looking back on my dating history; she’s not wrong. We all know I am
the last to know when I’m in a relationship; I tend to read it on Facebook or
back in the day Myspace. A lot of my exes have been friends that have turned
into more. I sure as hell wasn’t looking to bang them from the offset. But for the
most part they were solid relationships while they lasted, largely because we
had that solid friendship ground work.
The theory seems highly plausible to me, I’m not sure if that’s a good thing or a bad thing, but I’m sure you will let me know. I think I’ll make that your question of the blog; is friendship, then a relationship a good thing or a bad thing? Let me know what you think in the comment box below. And as always stay, and play safe.
The Honest Bitch