I’m starting to worry that I am slightly dead inside. I’ve spent
years building walls and toughening up to become the strong woman I am today. Working
in such a male dominate environment has really focused me to be less emotional and
almost detached in order to be taken seriously and gain success. Don’t get me
wrong, I don’t always succeed in keeping my emotions in check, but it takes a lot
for me crack these days.
With all that said; I think I may have done too good of a
job. I know what I should be feeling regarding the whole Mr. X thing, yet I feel
nothing. It’s like my brain hasn’t taken the information in. I’m not sure if it’s
because every time he’s spoken to me, I’ve been at work or if I’m genuinely broken.
I’m fairly switched
off at work; I have a job to do and I get it done and once I leave it never happened.
It’s a stressful job and I find that the easiest way to stay sane. So, I’m
wondering if that’s why Mr. X hasn’t sunk it. He spoke to me at work, we had
the needed conversation and I came home as if nothing happened.
Either that or years
of dealing with fuck-wit men has left emotional scarred and broken. Either, or
really.
Anyways, I’m going to go and have a nap. But before I go I
have this question for you; do you compartmentalize work and real life, or do
you have a different way of dealing with stress? Let me know in the comment box
below and as always stay and play safe.
Love,
The Honest Bitch