I kind of figured his silence was because of a girl and his first message (“The issue is that you may have to fight another girl for me!”) confirmed that.
My first thought was “cute, he thinks I’m going to risk a broken nail for him”. I decided to keep my bitch side in check and do the polite thing and ask about his new girl. Instead of a nice conversation a game of dodge-ball ensued.
When I first asked he send me this message.
Evil Monkey: “Oh haha, I sent that to the wrong person”
Seeing as it fit the conversation perfectly, my bullshit detector went off and I wasn’t buying it. I then got.
Evil Monkey: “Haha what brings this up?”
I’m either dealing with an idiot or someone is dodging my questions. Since clearly he brought it up.
Evil Monkey: “I’ll give you a clue she’s female.”
At this point I crossed the line from irritated to pissed off. Then he sent this.
Evil Monkey: “What are you looking for?”
Well I can tell you what I’m not looking for, a game of dodge ball. I was looking for gossip. What else would I be looking for?
Evil Monkey “lol not what I expected”
That was the last message he sent before he vanished again leaving me to irritated and with my next blog.
What really pisses me off is the whole thing could have been avoided with a straight answer. I’m not a cop; I wasn’t asking if he murdered anyone. All I did was ask about a girl he brought up.
If for whatever reason he didn’t want to talk about it all he had to do was say “I don’t want to talk about it.” But instead he decided to play games.
I respect straight shooters and people like this are the catalyst for murder. It’s infuriating and I‘d know as a customer service rep I was trained in the question dodge. That’s also the reason I can tell you to fuck off in 4 different languages.
I know what I would have done in his place, but what would you have done? Tell me straight or play a game of dodge ball? And more importantly why do guys play these BS games?
As always my dears stay safe.
The Honest Bitch