Wednesday, 8 May 2013

Guest Post Dilemma

I’ve been working on a guest post (that I may never finish at this rate) for about how we all bitch and moan about wanting to find the elusive triple threat guy; a guy that’s not only nice and sweet but funny too, yet when we were in school we all over looked these sweet, funny guys in favor of guys, who in hindsight, were total douche bags.

Because I’m not a total hypocrite and like to heed some of my own advice, I messaged the guy who in my mind is the quintessential nice, sweet, funny guy that got over looked in school.

Besides the fact it took him a week to reply to me (which isn’t cool and almost caused a blog about us turning those nice guys into douche bags) it went ok. It was nice to catch up with him and there may have been a little harmless flirting going on. But after a couple of days messaging back and forth he vanished without a trace, and after two unanswered messages (which contained questions) and 8 days, I am declaring him officially dead.

Which leaves me with the problem of how to finish my guest post; did we turn all the nice guys into assholes? Maybe I just broke this one or maybe they just seemed so nice in school because the guys we were chasing were such fuckwits in comparison.

What do you guys think? I want to hear your opinions on this, leave your comment in the comment box below and as always stay and play safe.


The Honest Bitch 


  1. Let me see if I can write a better comment than those two idiot spammers - they are really getting under my skin!
    I don't think we turn all nice guys into assholes, and I think most guys fluctuate between being nice and assholes - similar to us. I know that I was super sweet with M, but the guy I am dating now, well I am kind of being a bitch to him. Why? 'cause I just got out of a relationship, I don't want to jump in another and right now all guys seem like the enemy. Ok to have fun with, but that's it. I think that' what forges our behavior - the previous relationship, not high school.
    Just a theory .. what do I know?

    1. Sorry I didn't even noticed them all gone now.

      You know a lot more then you give yourself credit for missy :-)

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  5. I think sometimes guys are really just assholes on the inside but seem nice on the outside. Sort of like puberty, these guys "grow into" their asshole-ish ways as they get older. Sigh... what can you do?