When I've talked about my “relationship” with Barney ending, a
couple of friends have asked me the same question; did I try? And I find this question
incredibly offensive.
Why is my duty to chase a grown ass man? I messaged him, he
failed to message me back, in my book I tried. Did I try hard….no but why
should I? If I’m not a priority to him why would I want to chase him?
I hate that emphasis is placed on the woman, like somehow it’s
our job to corral men and beat the asshole out of them; while training them in
the art of common courtesy and communication. I’m sorry, but I didn’t sign up
for that. There are only 2 things in this life worth chase and neither of them are
men. They’re alcohol and dreams and I recommend one more then the other.
Given the men I date, it’s a no brainer chase alcohol, lots
and lots of alcohol J
Anyways, my lovelies, that’s my rant over with. I am off to
make the most of my last night off, cocktails, chick flick and a face mask are
just what the doctor ordered. I suppose before I go I should leave you guys
with a question; have you ever chased anyone and was it worth it? Let me know in
the comment box below and as always, stay and play safe.
Love,
xoxoxo