It sounds crazy but over the years and many boyfriends
I've become a pro at dealing with jerk man. I've become so good at it normally I
can even determine the intent of the jackassness.
Guys act like assholes for many reasons, some complex and some because they are assholes. It takes a lot of experience to work out the cause
and more importantly whether it's worth dealing with are not. The answer is
normally not.
All that jerkiness I can deal with without batting an
eyelash, hell I'm almost good at it but I've recently discovered the not so
good at dealing with non-jackass men. My quick wittedness and ability to think
on my feet is powerless against them.
Jon sent me a message last night saying “you're a girl
that every guy should treasure J”. What
am I meant to do with that? There is no quick-witted comeback for that. My only
defence is to blush and bury my face. I'm just not used to that.
Normally when a guy says those sorts of things, they do
it when they think they have a shot of getting in my pants. I can see through
that BS and reply accordingly. I'm really not used to a guy saying those things
because he means them.
It takes a lot shake me, I work customer service for many
years, you name it I've heard it, and it doesn't faze me, but apparently my
weakness is niceness. I just don't know what to do with it. I’m The Honest
Bitch not The Honest Sweetheart.
Am I alone in this? Do you find it easier or more comfortable
to deal with assholes? Or am I just weird?
As always stay and play safe, Love,
The Honest Bitch
xoxoxoxo
