I am sure you’ve noticed I have back dated a few blogs in an
attempt to catch you up on all the gossip. This post will be the details on all
my dates with Hugh so far. I am writing this the morning after our 4th
date just to give you a little perspective.
Date 1: Drinks
This date was lovely when it finally got started, we went
for drinks, followed by a lovely walk. And he kissed me on a bridge overlooking
the water. He, however, did showed up 40 minutes late to it. Partly my fault,
he was trying to calm down my nerves.
After Date 1:
I got put into quarantine after my step dad and the mom tested
positive for COVID-19. Hugh and I continued talking and planning a date for my “Freedom
Day”.
Right before our second date he sent me a message raising some
concerns and double checking I was ok with us not having a relationship and
just dating… no commitment. I responded back by telling him I was. He was clear
from the start on what his wishes were.
Date 2: Pumpkins?
The second date was on my Freedom Day. The plan was to go around
his to carve pumpkins. I got there, he started pushing my comfort level quickly.
We know I am not body confident and his hands were everywhere. Let me say, it
wasn’t distressful in anyway, it was just the vibe. But it was a lot…. Good though.
The pumpkins didn’t happen, but other things did.
This was a little overshadowed by mom, who was in hospital at
this point. I ended up freaking out in the middle of the night and crying on.
Just what you want on a date.
Date 3: Pumpkins
To change things up, he decided to come over and we’d carve
those pumpkins at last. I was stressed about this date. Things between us were
very easy, we have a lot in common, we’re able to laugh and joke. I love how
things flow and just feel natural. And with everything going on I didn’t want
that to change or be affected.
This date both sucked and was awesome. Early in the evening we
got the news my mother passed away. I felt bad for Hugh it’s a strange place to
put but he handled it well. And luckily for me that comfort held because I am positive,
I would have fallen apart without him there. He gave me a reason to hold it together
if that makes sense. We went on with our
evening and carved the pumpkins and watched a film.
I made a mistake that night and asked about other girls and
he was honest and told me there were 4 and he had a date with another that upcoming
Sunday. I thought as much, but it stung a little. I knew the score and I was happy
with it, but…. She had a date, and I was struggling to get another lined up.
Date 4: Jealous
At some point I gave in an admitted to Hugh, I was jealous.
I should have been playing by fuck friend rules, but those can lead to trust
issues and I like how easy things are with us, I don’t want to question
everything he says. I am comfortable with him. I am actually starting to feel
good about his hands on me. His response was to come over. And I am glad he
did. After a few minutes of awkwardness. I settled into a nice place. We have a
spark, and it was fun to explore that. And while I know he’s not after anything
serious, right now this is fun, and I could use some fun. I trust him enough to
not worry and to have my walls down, but I don’t feel completely vulnerable.
Despite being a bit of playboy he’s a good guy.
Unless he calls things off with me today and which case, he’s
a…
Anyways, that’s you guys all up to date now. As always stay
and play safe.
Love,
The Honest Bitch
xoxo
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