There is one question
that has become the bane of my life now that I have decided to torture myself
with online dating. That question being “what are you looking for?” Now I’m
sure that this question shouldn’t be as hard as it, but I can’t seem to find
even a half decent answer.
The honest
answer being I’m not looking for anything. If I happen to find someone awesome,
if I don’t, I’m good. I am not looking for anybody to make me whole or any of that
bullshit. I’m there because I write a blog about dating and relationships and
sometimes you need to do a little research to better your writing.
That may be the
honest answer, however, it gets you nowhere. Men apparently don’t want to know
the truth. They want to think you need them and the fact I don’t, scares them…
Funny enough, I didn’t need a dating site to tell me this, I’ve been having the
same issue for years.
You’d think I’d
be able to pick up the “right” answer by talking to the first few guys,
however, all their answers seem kind of pathetic to me so that’s clearly not
going to work. Perhaps the right thing to do is keep answering honestly and the
guy I don’t scare off is the man for me but I just don’t know.
So I leave the
question with you; what is the non-pathetic answer to “what are you looking
for?” let me know in the comment box below and as always stay and play safe.
Love,
The Honest Bitch
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