Wednesday 25 January 2012

Red vs Blue

My brain is currently locked in a battle over two competing concepts and there's only one possible way to resolve this dilemma. So...

Standing on my red shoulder standing 5'11" tall representing all things good and honest. The one... The only... NTB

And fighting from my blue shoulder, stand being 6'2" tall, representing all things misleading and game like, Jimmy “The Ego” Jacob

Let's get ready to rumble! Ding, ding, ding

and with the first blow its NTB and his belief that you don't need to play games to be happy in a relationship, quickly followed up by his unwavering belief that a good relationship is based on total honesty.

Landing a shot of his own Jimmy with his belief that guys want what they can't have, followed up by his valid point that social networks turn females crazy.

NTB lands another punch with his point that not playing games makes relationships a lot easier.

Jimmy just misses with his idea that guys hate being compared to anyone. Because we all know guys only hate being compared to people that are better than them.

NTB misses with a punch of his own, the idea that all games are pointless. That is simply untrue. You need some teasing and playing hard to get in a relationship or you’d die of boredom.

But not one to stay down, NTB lands a huge hit with his straightforwardness because we all know men can't read between the lines to save their life.

Not one to be outdone Jimmy fires back with give the guy some space, if he likes you, he'll swallow his pride and make the first move. And he follows that up with a sweet little titbit, if in doubt start dating. Playing on a guy’s built-in jealousy and give him a taste of his own medicine.

In the dying seconds of the last and final round NTB lands a big punch of his own with “treat people how you would want to be treated”.

Ding, ding, ding, this is it, it's all over, it's all comes down to a judge's decision.

Judge 1 gives it to..... Jimmy

Judge 2 gives it to....NTB

And the third and final judge.... Has no freaking clue

While I replay this fight over and over in my head, let me know what you think. Are games in a relationship such a bad thing? Do you need those games to help feel each other out? Or is being totally straightforward from the start the best way to handle things?

Or is purple the answer, a bit from the red shoulder and a bit from the blue?

As always guys, stay safe, love,

The Honest Bitch
xoxoxo

4 comments:

  1. Hey,

    It's THE EGO. :P Thanks for the shout out and as you know, I have played stupid games in the past. HOWEVER, I truly believe that you shouldn't play games...but rather strategize.

    We all must use strategy when we date, if we didn't, we wouldn't know how to flirt, how to initiate foreplay and how to maintain interest from your crush.

    You don't have to play games to succeed in relationships...however I do believe that you can make things a lot easier on yourself if you can avoid doing things that will cause drama in your love life.

    If that makes any sense at all. ;)

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  2. Honesty is always the best. Games are never good. Don't push. Don't be too quick to believe what you hear. Keep your dignity and independence. And it could be that neither of these guys should even be contenders.

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  3. Unfortunately I don't play games. Aim known to be frank. It takes a while for people to know me, but when they do they know they have got what they have seen:)
    Glad I found you at bloggers.com. You have a great blog. You can find me at http://purplechronicle.blogspot.com/

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  4. Unfortunately I don't play games. Aim known to be frank. It takes a while for people to know me, but when they do they know they have got what they have seen:)
    Glad I found you at bloggers.com. You have a great blog. You can find me at http://purplechronicle.blogspot.com/

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