You’d think it would be easier for guys. Nobody is asking them to read between the lines like in many relationships, all they have to do is read.
Shame it never seems to work that way.
They either get whinny and bitchy about what you wrote, missing the whole point and demanding you take down the post “right this second”. Or they play dumb and say they didn’t know the post was about them.
Are you kidding me? How does a person read events that they experienced and not know it’s about them? That boggles my mind. There is no way on earth they can actually be that dumb....is there?
Nothing infuriates me more than when a guy plays dumb. You may not give a shit and that’s fair enough but don’t insult my intelligence by playing dumb, I’m not buying it.
For that reason I give Mr. X a lot of credit. He may not have given a shit when I was upset but he always knew I was and why. He didn’t care but he never played dumb about it either. I respect that.
So I guess the question is do you play dumb and if so why? Or do you call it like you see it even if it might hurt someone’s feelings?
Stay safe guys, Love,
The Honest Bitch