Friday 21 September 2012

Cautionary Tale

I’m sure you guys remember me telling you about my Internet spite dating which I’ve now decided to put on the back burner because, in all honestly if that’s what’s available, I’m glad I’m single.

The only non-weirdo on there was a guy named Mike I went to college with and I didn’t need a dating site to introduce me to someone I already knew. Also despite what the site had to say, we’re not a match. He’s a great guy but neither of us are interested.

Back to the internet dating, I told you guys about a lot of the guys on their however I didn’t tell you about one guy, I’m going to call Adam because well that’s his name.

He was a few years younger than me and didn’t live locally, however he was moving down here to go to university in just a few weeks. He said he was only on the dating site to try and met some people before he moved. He wasn’t my type at all but since he was looking for friends rather than a relationship I didn’t mind.

Everything started off fine, he came across a little overly keen but I didn’t really think too much of it. I should have. Because over the next 2 weeks Adam sent me a ridiculous amount of messages, I’m talking well over a thousand messages. He was becoming clingy and needy and if he saw I was online on the dating site, he turned into a PMSing little whiny ass girl and this was all before I had even met him in person.

Then he sent me this message, “Did you ever really want to meet me? Were you ever interested?”

That is what I call a “Game Over” message. That is the point where you’d have to lack any IQ at all not to walk away.

We had been chatting 3 weeks at the most when he sent that message. For most of that time we didn’t even live in the same city. You’d have to be stupid to meet a guy after that. This story has evening news written all over it.

And that’s like my only goal in life, not to end up on the evening news as one of those cautionary stories.

So what do you guys think am I over reacting or am I right to block and delete this weirdo, let me know in the comment box below. And while you’re at it, tell me you’re weirdo stories I’d love to hear them.

As always, stay and play safe, love,

The Honest Bitch 


  1. Oh god...I've done the online dating. And while I walked away with some pretty cool stories there are the creepy ones too. Like the guy who posts the picture of himself right after high school and then when you meet him, he's balding. I've had the guy who freaked out when he saw me online on the site too! My response? Well're online too so we're both obviously not fully invested in this faux relationship.

  2. He has loser written all over him--steer clear. He is the type of creep who would snag your phone while you were in the bathroom, drive by the house at all hours to check on you....naw, you did right by deleting him. Trust me---I stayed way too long in a relationship like this once and it ended badly. That was 30 years ago and guess what? He found my mother's phone number last spring and called her in search of finding me again to "re-connect"!!!! He knows damn well I am married and have 4 kids. Major creepy. Move on to bachelor #3!!!

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